Come and Meet Us!

Suntree Retreat 2024 is coming up, and you’re invited! This biannual in-person gathering of Atheopagans will take place Aug. 30-Sept. 2, at the La Foret Retreat Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado. It’s a long weekend of workshops, rituals, celebration, socializing, parties and fun!

The last Suntree Retreat, in 2022, was really a high point in my life: a time when, surrounded by like-minded folks, I could really be and express my deepest self. So many meaningful moments!

For more details on what Suntree Retreat feels like, listen to the latest episode of our podcast, The Wonder: Science-Based Paganism, where we interview folks who came last time. Click here for the podcast episode.

All details about the event, a downloadable program and registration information, go to The Atheopagan Society’s website at theAPSociety.org. I hope to see you there!

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Chasing the Unicorn

EDIT: Saw ’em! A beautiful ruby-red glow across the sky around midnight!

If you’re like me, you have a list of things you hope to see or do in your life. I don’t like the term “bucket list”, but that’s what it is.

I am fortunate in that many of those things I most wanted to experience or places I wanted to go I have, in fact, been able to achieve. I don’t travel much any more because I can’t afford it, but I got a good two years of it into my late 20s, and over the years I have ticked boxes like skydiving and rafting the Grand Canyon and so forth.

There are, of course, many more on the list of would-be experiences, and I won’t get to all of them. But one of those I am most fiercely protective of is one I finally may be able to do this evening: to see the aurora borealis.

Now, I would love to see auroras from Alaska or Greenland or Iceland or Norway. I don’t know that I am ever going to be able to make those trips happen.

But tonight, a Class IV coronal mass ejection (CME) will strike the Earth’s magnetosphere and spark those dancing, colorful lights, perhaps as far south as I am in California, or even further (Alabama?). So I will be going out to a good spot to observe the dark sky, and looking to the north for, at least, green or red lights glowing on the horizon. Here’s a cool explainer from the Chair of the Atheopagan Society Council, Jon Cleland Host.

I like to think that adventure is always just around the corner, and this somewhat random event reminds me of this: wait long enough, and the unicorn will come along.

Here’s hoping!

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May Eve, the Darkness Before the Splendor

So it’s Walpurgisnacht, the night before May Day. Traditionally, a sort of transposed Hallows, with ghosts and spirits loose in the world before the brilliant dawn of the May.

I sometimes think of May Day as the dawning of the World. There is something so grand and magnificent about dawn at this time of year, with the bird chorus and dew-spangled grasses, the cool-but-not-cold that will fade to kissed-skin temperate breezes. It’s luscious, and filled with wonderful memories for me.

This year, May morning will fall squarely in the midst of the work week and there is exciting stuff happening at work that I must attend to, so I won’t do as I usually do and take May Day off. I even have a board retreat for work this weekend, so I can’t celebrate then, either. So tonight is kind of it.

Thus, I have decided to build a fire in our outdoor fire pit and sit outside for awhile, enjoying the stars and Moon and sounds of night, remembering good times celebrating this season with friends and loved ones.

It’s weird to have become old. This holiday was so sexy, back in the day, with love and adventure and healthy pleasure, with gales of belly laughter and the good company of friends.

Now, though, many of those bonds and circles have been shattered by the inevitable stupid human tricks, and here I am, at my computer, conjuring memories of what it was like to be young and pretty with flowers in my hair, staying up all night with friends for May morning.

I am fortunate to live in an area with a lot of Pagan activity, still. There are Beltane Maypole celebrations scheduled for this weekend, when I will have to miss them, but it’s good to know that there are people dancing with ribbons yet, that the tradition carries on.

So here’s to May Day, to Beltane or whatever you choose to call it, the Gateway to the Good Times when the Earth is mild and kind and the scent of flowers carries on soft breezes. I will burn my fire tonight, watch the sparks soar up and know that the Bale-fires of antiquity are still alight today. That joy and pleasure and fun and community have not been forgotten.

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It’s here!

My new book, Round We Dance: Creating Meaning Through Seasonal Rituals is published and launched!

I had a lovely book launch party yesterday in Oakland, California. It was great to see friends, read some passages and sell and sign some books.

It has been about a year and a half since I submitted the manuscript for Round We Dance, and as I read pieces of it I found myself thinking hey, this is good stuff! Nice to feel that sense of pride in my craft.

Here I am, signing. Isn’t Kimba’s coat amazing? She said it was like being inside a Muppet.

I’m really proud of this book and I think it’s a reference work that Atheopagans will use for a long time in helping to build their practices. If you bought it (thank you!) I hope you find it interesting and helpful.

ROUND WE DANCE: Creating Meaning Through Seasonal Rituals is available by order from any bookstore or directly from Llewellyn Worldwide.

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Against the Golden Age

So, we were talking about “origin myths” in one of the Atheopagan community Zoom mixers the other day. And Mícheál, who is a member of the Atheopagan Society Council, suggested–somewhat facetiously–something like this for much of mainstream Paganism:

Long ago, people lived in peaceful, egalitarian matriarchal/matrifocal societies that revered the Earth Goddess in many forms*. Since then, patriarchy has poisoned the relationship between humans and the Earth, subjugated women and created war. We must get back to that prior way of being.

Now, this is grossly oversimplified, of course. But it is, at root, the story that many Pagans have told themselves, and often still do. Some still extend the myth to include that modern Paganism is an outgrowth of a living tradition which has survived at least since the Middle Ages in Europe, even though Ronald Hutton pretty definitively disproved that in The Triumph of the Moon.

These narratives, though certainly heartwarming, are almost certainly wrong. The conjectural work of the likes of Marija Gimbutas and Riane Eisler notwithstanding, there is vanishingly little evidence to support the “ancient paradise” thesis.

Moreover, they are clear descendants of the ideas of the Romantic era, which projected ideas of the “noble savage” and the celebration of “getting back to nature” in a highly colonializing, patronizing and white-supremacist manner. Romanticism and occult/magical/Pagan movements have been deeply intertwined ever since the late 18th century.

So I don’t have much truck with these myths about the past. They don’t seem to have much of a nexus with actual history.

But even if they did, I am here to state that it doesn’t matter. At all.

There is something about humans–maybe our nostalgia for previous times in our lives–that leads us to be drawn to stories of a golden past when things were, if not perfect, as least better. When the afflictions of the now were lessened or absent.

That’s a sentimental trap, and I say we should do what we can not to succumb to it.

There is also a fallacy when it comes to religions and “magical traditions” which suggests that the older something is, the more valid it is. When stated as such, this is clearly untrue. But many practitioners of various religions cite that their particular practices have been going on for a long time as “evidence” that they must be based in truth or wisdom.

To this, I say: nonsense.

I don’t use an Acheulian handaxe to process my food, or a punchcard computer. I don’t want 19th century medical care. We have learned a lot since those were on the cutting edge, and I want the benefit of everything we have learned since.

This is true, too, of religion. Human culture has evolved such that what was considered wise and just and morally acceptable in the Bronze Age is no longer so. Things like human sacrifice and stoning of adulterers and racism and slavery and subjugation of women are wrong, no matter what some ancient text might say about them.

“Ancient wisdom” is usually neither. And it’s about time people in Paganism stop romanticizing “old ways” and fess up to that.

Atheopaganism is a modern approach to religion and spirituality. We do not pretend to be rooted in anything ancient, except insofar as those things are factually based, like celebrating solstices and equinoxes and the like. Humans all over the world have been celebrating those things for many thousands of years, because they are real, rather than mythological.

The freedom that being a modern religious path gives us is that instead of being harnessed to some story about a long-gone Golden Age, we can focus on here and now, and on the future.

We’re not trying to reassert some bygone paradise. We’re trying to live as well, sustainably, kindly and happily as we can, and to help create a future in which that is more possible than it is today. We can do that with all the tools and learning that modernity offers us.

The Golden Age is a lie. We are well rid of it.

So let us push back against sentimental nostalgia, and look to the future with new eyes as we work to embody and promulgate our values. There has never been a time when so many have been as empowered as we are today–even in poor places, with access to technology such as mobile phones. Surely we can chart a course to a better future, and shatter or reshape the systems that do not serve our well-being.


*Unless you’re a Norse Pagan or heathen, of course, wherein the origin myth is often about an era infused with macho values like strength, honor, duty and courage, with much brandishing of warlike symbols like axes, swords and shields, a corresponding ignoring of the fact that during most of the year so-called “Vikings” were farmers, and a desire for an afterlife in Sto-Vo-Kor Valhalla.

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April 8, a Red-Letter Day!

Monday, April 8 will be a day that a lot of people will remember as the Solar Eclipse of 2024. With the path of totality passing over a region housing more than 31 million, it will be a shared experience that many will hold for the rest of their lives.

I with I could be one of them. We’ll have a partial eclipse here in California, but the path of totality is far away and I can spare neither the time nor money to get there right now. Too bad, because the next North American total solar eclipse won’t be until the 2040s. I’m likely not to be around by then.

What I get as a consolation prize, though, is that also on April 8, my new book will be released. ROUND WE DANCE: Creating Meaning Through Seasonal Rituals has been long in coming, but it’s finally going to be here!

If you happen to live in the San Francisco Bay Area, I hope you will join me for a book release party in downtown Oakland, at the kinfolx community space on Telegraph Ave. The party will be on Saturday, April 13, from 3-6 pm. I’ll be reading from the new book and signing books for guests.

You can order the new book at any bookstore, or at Powells.

And be sure to get eclipse glasses for looking at the Sun–you can suffer severe and permanent eye damage if you look at the Sun without them.

Photo by Jan Haerer on Unsplash

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